Showing posts with label growth. Show all posts
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Friday, May 13, 2022

The Story behind France

Elias Gaines was a man of few words and fewer faults. Naturally, as a farmer, the idea of wasting energy in fruitless ventures was akin to wasting energy in slothful languish. Elias Gaines did much of what any farmer did, he woke with the sun, worked himself to the quick, and went to bed as the sun did.


His good wife, Amelia, cared very much for him, often working herself through the house just as hard as Elias did in the fields. Yet no matter how hard she worked, she could never keep up. Even as a young newly wedded bride, she could feel the dark shudders of cold much harder than they ever could have been. When she passed, Elias found her laying in the pantry.


Elias never really talked much before his wife passed and after, his lips remained just as welded shut as they had been if not more so. He went about the chores as usual, he went about his life as usual, and yet rarely did he spend time at the pub. Rarely did he spend time at church in spite of Father Logan’s insistence. Rarely did Elias receive mail, but when he did, it was always packages from France.


While post from France was hardly news worthy, it was for a small farming town in Texas. He never said much when he picked his mail up from the post office but simply smiled. Each package was a small smile, a gift to grace us from the hard, sun-scorched skin of the old farmer. His aged, callous, and worry-worn hands gripping the edges of the packages. Fingers inspecting the edges for damage, identifying any faults in the surface, and when satisfied, he would always nod and thank us, thank the world for his gift. It was always a strange moment when he left the room with his package. It was as if we had missed some strange joke that the old man had played on us.


It was rumored that the packages were letters from some long-lost love. Gifts from a French gendarme who he saved the life of in the trenches at the Somme was another story. Another story was each package was a painting from a French artist he patronizing.


Each story, although riveting, was far from the truth. The truth was far less interesting, far more mundane, and when that truth came out, the townsfolk could only nod and smile.


Every day, after tending the fields, fixing his tools, going into town, making dinner, and after finally kicking off his boots Elias sat in his living room and listened to the sound of Mozart. His antique phonograph softly filling that old farm house with the sound of masterful violins, enchanting piano, and the gentle notes of woodwinds that floated from across the sea into Elias’ eager and overjoyed ears. Each night he would choose from his collection, choose a master of music and enjoy their craft to their fullest extent. Handel, Chopin, Mozart, Beethoven, Bach, Schubert, Brahms, Debussy, Tchaikovsky. A wall of his house had grown fat with their collected works, shelves packed to sagging with vinyl records for his enjoyment, and enjoy them Elias did.


Elias passed with a soft smile at his lips and his record player skipping on the last line of Chopin. His house filled with the crackle of the needle, covered in dust from France and Texas, and yet still, this farmhouse might have rivaled the grandest of conservatories.

Friday, May 6, 2022

The Fruit of Wisdom

 As Summer grows ever closer, the world seems to grow a little less clever, a little less wise, and in that I think there is a true loss. It’s tough to imagine, but you can be wrong. You can make that mistake, you can make many mistakes, but if you learn nothing from your mistakes, then you’ve wasted a perfectly good opportunity to learn.

Most of my students have yet to learn this, even as they look forward to graduating in just a few short weeks. We’ve created humans who cannot learn from their own mistakes let alone, too scared to try for fear of looking foolish, and worse yet, too scared of getting the wrong answer when that’s the only way to learn. Yes, I too hesitate to admit that I am wrong, but since becoming a teacher, I can proudly say that I can make light of my mistake and use it as a teaching moment.

For those of you who need it, “the greatest masters have made mistakes, the worst students have made none.”



The Language of Wisdom has been and always will be written in mistakes and lessons. Each and every blunder, misstep, miscalculation, error and failure is a moment in time in which a seed has been planted. That seed is from the Fruit of Wisdom, it takes time to grow, time to cultivate, and time to harvest, but that first taste is often the sweetest after many bitter failures. No one tends their own farms alone, often, we begin with help from others. Help from those who came before us. Help from the lessons they spent their lives cultivating into fruit bearing trees.

“Never run with scissors.”
 
“Fire is hot.”
 
“A Bad Moment does not make a Bad Day.”
 
"Look both ways before crossing a street."
 
“You are the only one who can change who you are.”
 
“Manners maketh the man (or woman).”
 
“Your journey is different from everyone else’s.”


These lessons are older than you can imagine, each holding some truth, each a fruit of wisdom that has been planted since long before you were born, and yet they still taste just as sweet. Even as you work hard, making your own mistakes, planting your own seeds, tilling your own soil, these lessons are there.

All these lessons, each and every iota of them are all from the seeds of wisdom that others have already planted, already cultivated, and have given to you to taste on your own. So, eat your fill, but never forget to plant. Never forget to learn your own lessons from your own mistakes, never forget your own truths.